Thunker’s Weblog


A Friend Gone
February 19, 2008, 9:35 pm
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The weekend has come and gone.  I attended the funeral of a close friend.  He wasn’t young and had been sick for quite a while.  For that part of his passing I was grateful, because he would not suffer from his body’s deterioration.  I had known him for at least forty years and because of the time we spent together, we had a friendship.  Not just a mere acquaintance, but a real bond between friends.  That is where the real hurt lays.  It lays in that I miss his wisdom.  I miss his humour.  I miss the twinkle in his eye when he would counsel me for my own good.

His death also drives another nail into the coffin of my youth.  He was one of the icons of my childhood, one of the heroes.   I think of those people as being eternal, immortal like my memories.  When he died, his passing reminded me that my youth is long gone, as well.  My memories as just puffs of time that no longer exist, just as the physical presence of my friend has gone the way of all things mortal.   But that is okay.  Underneath it all I know that the pattern of life stumbles along like this.  Birth comes, followed by a life and then the body fails and death brings its own chapter of experience.  The death of my friend reminds of my own mortality.  Time speeds along faster and faster with each year, drawing me closer to my own mortal end.  So it is for us all.



A New Beginning
February 15, 2008, 6:11 pm
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Welcome to my blog!  I have never constructed a weblog before, so part of the fun may be to watch me stumble through the process. 

This purpose of this blog is to be a creative written vehicle for me.  No one may ever read it, but it will definitely be a wonderful, useful outlet for thoughts as they hit me.  I may talk politics, (when I’m feeling particularly brave and saucy), or religion, or music or work or parenting or anything else.  I will not talk about the weather.  That I can promise, at least for now.

So, that is where I’ll begin.  Please feel free to drop me a line and share your thoughts, feelings or juiciest gossip tidbit you have heard.  I will be reading…….